Monday, November 21, 2011

Advice for first relationship?

I'm 16, this guy likes me and I like him, and I know he wants to be my boyfriend. Do you have any tips? (Besides sex and all that, I'm waiting for marriage!) But I am kind of nervous- so anything that I should know?Advice for first relationship?
Go ahead and date him! Relax, be yourself--after all, he became attracted to you being yourself, right?


Make sure to get to know him--even if you weren't friends first, a good relationship is still based on a good friendship.


Talk a lot, but not too much; it's normal to talk every day or almost every day, but not every free minute of every day. You have a life, so live it.


Make sure to go out sometimes--I wish I did more, it's become a tad bit boring just to stay in each other's houses.


And don't rush anything--enjoy the moment, but don't let it get away from you. You have plenty of time, so use it.





Oh, and don't have sex. I know you didn't want to hear it again, but believe me, that is the first way to make a guy leave you quickly, or not leave you alone at all. And when you have to break up with a sexual partner, it's that much harder.Advice for first relationship?
Know that at that age, most teenage guys will want to fool around or ';go all the way'; Make sure he shares the same values as you do, or you might be uncomfortable every time you're alone.


If you do decide to date him, have fun. Do fun couples things like going out to dinner, the movies, the beach, etc. A first relationship is always memorable and you'll probably want to remember him 20 years from now, so maybe keep a diary or something. Good luck!
good for you for waiting untill you are married!





ok advice...





em dont get too hung up on him, guys are strange (like you one mintue dont the next)





dont do anything you dont want to do (eg sex etc)





and enjoy!! he should spoil you so enjoy it!





I think thats really it! nufin too serious just have fun





good luck sweetie
I would just be yourself and have a great time. Don't worry about it and just go with the flow. I woulden't think about it to much that way when the time comes you won't be to nervous.


I hope you have alot of fun!!! : )
i suggest now to fall in any find of relation because you might be tempted to do wrong stuff(i mean sex or tempt him to do so) right now you should study and try to remain friend with him
na just keep it coool and tell him ur new 2 it. if u feel uncomfortable tell him ur nervous but agree 2 be his gfriend but take it easy if u feel nervous then ull see later if it works out or not
Just let things go slow and enjoy every moment of the time you spend together. Trust is a big thing, so be sure to keep it.
Do wait for marriage before having sex!

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