Those of you who read most of my questions will probably find this strange, and maybe I'll regret this and delete it later, but I wanted to ask a serious question.
A few years back I was in a relationship with a great girl (maybe I'm romanticizing a little, but stay with me). She was beautiful and kind. Unfortunately, she passed away and since then I find I can't get or stay emotionally attracted to a girl. Maybe I feel like my heart is still taken since the relationship didn't ';end'; - I don't know. Anyway, I'm sure someone will suggest counseling but I'm not sure I want to spend the money if it won't help.
Please give me some input into why I might feel this way and what might help me feel differently. Also, don't think I'm some mope in life. I'm usually pretty happy and have no problems with friends and even finding a girl to go out with once or twice in a while so I'm not anti-social and withdrawn.Serious question about an old relationship - want advice and thoughts please, especially from girls.?
I know the problem. In your heart, you pictured yourself in the future with this girl that passed away. In the back of your mind, you feel that you are betraying or cheating on her if you date another girl. What you need to do is grieve for your girlfriend, look at her pictures, say a prayer for her, visit her family, go to the cemetery and think about her. You know she would not want you to be alone. Just like if you died, you wouldn't have wanted her to be alone because you are no longer on the earth. I don't think it's necessary for you to see a counselor because you just need to think about this and put it in perspective. Remember life is for the living. It's an old saying but it's true. Good luck and start dating. You deserve a nice life.Serious question about an old relationship - want advice and thoughts please, especially from girls.?
try to visit her grave and tell her its time you move on but you still love her
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