I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly half a year and recently I have been starting arguments. Since I began going out with him I have been insecure. When I dont see him for a while I worry that he is going to break-up with me, It sounds crazy to write dow but I get so worried that I am constantly asking him if he wants to be with me or why he doesn't try hard enough or if he really loves me. Last week we had a big arguement and lots of things were said, I shouted at him for not wanting the relationship as much as me and he got really upset I asked him about 5 times if he loved me and after saying yes 4 times he eventually said that sometimes he worried he didnt no what love was, but when he was with me he knew he did. I was very upset at this point and he later admitted he had been tempted to end it because he felt that he constantly made me sad and cried he said when he wasnt with me he worried he was hurting me. He said he missed us having fun. At the end of the fight he said he wanted to make things work and that he loved me and he really meant it. He has gone away for 5 days and he has text me everday since he went but still I am worried! I think he will break-up with me when he gets home and I spend alot of time analysing everything we said in the fight...I hate myself for worrying and I know its bad and I wish I could stop. I'm wondering if my problem is that every guy I've been with has left me or cheated and my dad left before I was born...??? Any advice!!!!???????Is it all my fault? relationship worries...advice needed.?
I often feel the same in my own relationship, but you have to know that your insecurities are your own worst enemy in this case. Trust him when he tells you he loves you (from the sounds of it he cares about you a ton!) and don't keep asking him every five seconds because being so insecure could ultimately drive him away, even if he does want to be with you. Is it all my fault? relationship worries...advice needed.?
just talk it over, and instead of jumping to conclusions or accusing him, let him talk, ask him how he feels about all this.
it seems to be just a trust issue, just talk it over.
you just gotta have faith in him, good luck%26lt;3
Way too much drama, girl.
you should trust him. it is hard at first but if you really love him you should forget all your doubts and if he's worth it he won't disappoint you. i know this is a good way to get hurt, so if you decide to do this, think hard about whether you truly trust him and love him enough. sometimes things don't turn out as bad as it would seem.
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