Monday, November 21, 2011

Any advice on the best way to get over a relationship?

Putting it in its simplest form, it's been 4 months since my boyfriend cheated on me, I trusted him 110% and so now i find it hard to trust anyone, but all im doing is thinking about him every second, i've tried many things and i thought over time it would get better, but im finding it harder to cope with. Please give me some tips???Any advice on the best way to get over a relationship?
My x-husband had a problem with flirting with woman at his restaurant till i told him i was tired of it and that i was leaving him well a week later he was already dating a girl he was already talking to before i broke it off with him..Well not to take ur time men will always have the need for attention so never feel like it was ur fault or feel like ur ugly because ur not!Now to get over him the only way to this is by loving urslelf first always put urself firts hang out with friends including guy friends .Next always leave men thinking u dont want them be a some what of a ***** they love it when women have control in the beginning.One more thing please give urself at least time to heal n dont hate all men for what was done to u .Your ex will get a taste of his own medicine so remember karma is a ***** so try to play hard to get always give urself 4 months before the first kiss trust me men fall head over heals when they find a challenge.So play nice but remember love urself before u could love someone else take care n dont fee l like its the en of the world u will find someone better ..ohh and one more thing always have men treat u like a princess if they dont then kick them to the curb..lol byeAny advice on the best way to get over a relationship?
you need to shut off I think its HARD is what some people wont understand you trust him so much then he cheats and leaves.... I know how you feel when my first love cheated on me it took a year for me to start to move on I started by gradulay keeping myself busy and trying not to have the time to think of him and distracting myself i would stop all contact if you can just tell him you bth need some time to think then when you feel comfortable contact him as a friend just try to remeber what he did
It's never easy, so don't let people try to tell you it is... The best thing to do is GET OUT.. go on dates with other guys, I'm not talking serious dates, just having fun. If you start to think about him, call a friend. If you feel lonely, find someone to talk to. And most of all, don't talk to him. The more you talk to him, the worse you will feel.. I wish you the best, just hang in there... It DOES get better :)

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