My best friend is a girl who has a boyfriend. The problem is her boyfriend lives 3000 miles away in Canada. She met him online 5 years ago and says ';our relationship is different.'; Me and some of her other friends are worried. We told her that long-distance relationships dont work but she gets mad and ignores us. We dont want to see her hurt.
My question:How can we make her realize that this ';guy'; online cant possibly be a good boyfriend for her and make her give him up?A long distance relationship need advice?
you got to ask yourself this question how much do you know about their relationship and the other thing is, Not To Be Rude, but is it any of your bussiness, how long the two have been having the relationship or if they ever seen or visted each other and if she is in a relationship where she is happy then just respect that and be her friend.She gets mad because she loves this guy and she feels like you are another person trying to break them up also she might get mad because she feels it is noyb none of your business.She feels angery because you are most likely not the only person to tried to break them up.What she wants is a person to understand and accept her decisions.Obviously she loves him to have a long distance relationship for 5 years.With a lot of people trying to break them up. Respect her choice.She has been in this relationship for 5 years Obviously she loves him.Love Is The Strongest Thing In This World And It Is Not That Easy to find In This Cold Cruel World She just wants a friend to respect her wishes.good luckA long distance relationship need advice?
if she plans on meeting him in the future then let her. cuz i like someone in new york and i live in kansas......so im just going to meet him when i turn 18(im 15) and see what takes me from there!!!!
# 1:Who are you to judge?If they met 5 years ago and he's still around,it sounds as if it IS working !!!
#2: A relationship doesn't have to be up-close and physical in order for it to be a relationship.They can meet each other's emotional needs amd have a very loving, warm relationship.
#3:Years ago,couples wrote long love letters to each other,sometimes for years,exploring and discovering each other's heart,before they ever kissed,and the marriages lasted 50-plus years.
So,it is entirely possible that this GUY knows your friend better than you do.
long relationships never work brake up
cannot 'make' anyone do your bidding if they are not willing to abide....let the girl live her life and learn her own lessons...and be a fren.... do not make her feel like a poor pitiful loser...
Well, you never know... if they can meet up and then make a plan to somehow move closer to each other, then why not? If they only intend to keep it online, then what's the point? Ask her to either make a plan to progress the relationship or rethink this as it's a waste of time. It's got to be one or the other...
You can't really make someone realize that.. You just have to be happy for her and wish for the best... she won't realize that he's not good for her until she sees it herself.... so you just have to be a friend and be there to listen as much as you can and support her through everything... thats all we can do. Trying to convince her will only lead her to think you don't value her decision and could make you lose your friendship with her.
long distance relationships can work if both people are willing enough to go through the hard time and not be with eachother in a physical sense. as long as she is happy and safe then why are you worried about her? who are you to say that something she does wont work? that doesnt sound like to much of a support system. do you know this guy? maybe he is a good boyfriend. obvioulsly if there are details you are leaving out then maybe you have a right to say so. but unless she is in danger or unhappy...then leave her alone and let her live and possibly make her own mistakes
my sister met her boyfriend online and they've been together for 3 years.
he lives in washington dc and we live in california.
he visits her every month.. if not twice a month.
she tries to visit just as much.
if they're really serious about each other then there should be no reason as to why they've been together so long without meeting each other.
if they have met then leave her alone.
my sister is proof that all it takes is determination love and hard work in a relationship.
Thats a good question, how u make someone realize that the boy she is dating isnt good for her?
Thats the biggest friends issue there is, all u can do is be there cause he will brake her heart.
Long distance love, happy the four of us, thats what people say, what makes her feel so sure that he isnt cheating?
Eventually she will get tired of it and give it a rest, maybe u could try talking to the guy (but only if u know him or have talked to him). Anyways a woman in love is hard to make her stop, so my best wishes for u dude.
Good luck!
rob her computer haha
You shouldn't try to make her do anything. Just let her know that you are worried for her and will be here no matter how it turns out. And then don't say any more opinions about it unless she asks for them.
I recommend you to read this free E-book called 97 Steps To A Happy Relationship. It's a free and easy download, so it won't hurt to check it out.
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