i have been with this man for the past two years, we both love and care for each other a lot... we broke up 2 weeks ago because we have no future but we met yesterday for coffee to talk about this whole break up thing especially that we haven't talked about it face to face yet. we talked about the breakup and lisened to each other but since i live in a far away area, i stayed the night... his house is very big so i took one of the rooms and started reading before going to sleep, he comes into my room at night and we ended up getting physical.
We didn't say anything to each other afterwards but it is obvious that we both know we committed a mistake. i don't know what to do now that all this happened... it makes me feel terrible again, especially that we didn't talk about it, we just kind of laughed about it...
can you please give me advise... what shall i do? does this mean we are back? i am very confused...Complicated relationship... need advice?
well getting physical does not necessarily means you're back but I wonder why you didn't talk about it after wards anyway if you both think it was just a night so move on but if you think you still have feelings for each other you can work it out maybeComplicated relationship... need advice?
who broke up with who? if it was you that broke up with him, then his certainly not over you and are hoping for a chance to get back together again.
but if it was him that broke up with you, then you need to confront him and ask him why he did what he did. and make sure he knows that he cant just dump you and then expect to have you back whenever he feels like it!
Talk to him about it, and sort out reasons why you two broke up with each other in the first place, whether it was your idea or his, you need to work out your differences and if you two really love each other, then you will need to work together to build this relationshp and keep it real.
hope i helped :-)
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