Running out of time and need final dating/relationship advice!!!?

ASKED THIS QUESTION A FEW DAYS AGO AND JUST WANTED SOME MORE ADVICE. ***I REVISED MY MESSAGE TO ALL WHO HAVE SEEN THIS BEFORE***





Ok on Oct 31 i e-mailed (on myspace) a girl that i really like but she never noticed me at all. Now it has been a while i told her that i was being shipped out for usmc in two weeks. But i got really sick (the flu) and my recruiter extended my ship out until after the holidays. Now that time is running out and i don't want to give up i would like to start out as friends writing while i am in the usmc and see where that goes. But like i said i do not want to give up. But i don't know what to do.





when i emailed her all i said was who i was (in case she did not know since i do not think she ever noticed me) and happy halloween and that i would like to be e pals. Now i do not know what to do. Also that i was being shipped out in two weeks.


I would prefer not to give up.





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HOW I WAS PLANNING ON SENDING THE MESSAGE PLEASE INFORM ON ANY ADJUSTMENTS I CAN MAKE.





Dear Katie,


Around the 31st of Oct i sent you a message saying Happy halloween and telling you that i was shipping out for USMC boot camp in two weeks then on to the USMC school of infantry, for infantry rifleman training. But i never heard back from you. Well i unfortunately caught the flu and my recruiter extended my ship out until after the holidays. I would like to know if you would please be my e-pal, and talk to me through emails while i am in the Marines. I honestly hope you would. I could use the support. Well i look foward to you relpy. And happy holidays.


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Do i even try again?





Do i send one more message if so how do i word it?





Is my message good, is there any changes i can make to make it better (i want to send a message so good where she will really want to reply)?





Thanks and Semper Fi


Running out of time and need final dating/relationship advice!!!?
The first thing you need to understand is that women play relationship games all the time. Women love to control relationships. Women are constantly striving to control us. They can catapult us into instant, spontaneous lust, and, at the same time, into a knee-buckling fear of rejection. The very thought of a ripe, firm body can tyrannize our thoughts, leaving us sweaty and panting and out of control. And the dangling promise of sex can have us jumping through every female hoop imaginable.


Not a good situation. As men, we need to learn to turn the tables on this kind of female domination; to regain the upper hand in our interaction with the opposite sex. So how do we do this? Here are a few ways to put you back in the driver's seat of your dating life.


Desperation stinks, and women can sniff out insecurity. So even if you're Brad Pitt's better-looking brother, you still need to exude tons of confidence if you want to attract the ladies. This doesn't mean arrogance or acting like a selfish jerk. It means living with a secure sense of your masculine self; a rock-solid belief in your own worthiness as a desirable man.


Don't wuss out. Wussy guys are always seeking approval from women -- paying for female attention, pandering to their every desire, acting as if a woman is doing them a favor by even talking to them. They are desperate for sex and terrified of rejection. They hover around the fringes, hoping to get noticed by available females.


Instead of asking women out, they give them their business cards, then wait by a phone that never rings. They allow themselves to be sex-ploited by women. In other words, they act like doormats, not men. The result? Women either lose all respect and get turned off or simply take advantage of them.


Women love confident men. So even if you feel like jelly inside, act confident around the opposite sex. Have a plan for your life. Have a direction. Work out, eat right. Feel good about yourself. Be proactive in your relations with women. All this will show on your face and women will instantly recognize it. And too many guys just wuss out and hand over all their power, letting their sex drive get in the way of any common sense. But it doesn't have to be like this, as long as we guys make the effort to change the balance of this power, to take back the upper hand.


First of all, let's talk about the whole concept of ';testing';, and why women do it (and, more importantly, how to deal with it when it happens). In a nutshell, ';testing'; is a woman's way of QUICKLY finding out a lot of information with a very small investment. You must remember that beautiful women are being approached ALL THE TIME in one way or another... just about every man they meet tries to pick them up or come on to them. Women can FEEL this happening, even before it actually starts.


Now, if a woman is ';available';, she must figure out a way to ';separate the men from the boys'; so


to speak, and figure out if a particular man is going to be worth her time.


Enter the TEST.


Also, if an attractive woman is out on a date with a man, or having a phone conversation, etc. (or anything else that could be perceived as taking things to the next level) she must find out quickly whether this particular guy is:


1. Long-term relationship material


2. Short-term ';affair'; material


3. Friend material


4. Wuss material


Keep in mind, a beautiful woman has LOTS of options. She's being approached probably 100+ times a month with date offers, etc. and could never hope to spend even a small fraction of her time with all the men who are interested in her. She must use TESTS to quickly cut to the chase and find out what a particular guy is REALLY all about.


Tests can take many forms. Here are a few common ones:


1. Canceling plans with little notice, or flaking out entirely without notice.


2. Asking for gifts or favors outright.


3. Acting snotty, demanding, dramatic, or manipulative to see if you'll put up with it.


4. Asking or telling you to change your behavior.


5. Threatening to leave or take her attention and give it to someone else if you don't comply with her wishes. ...and the list goes on. As you already know, women often use more SUBTLE tests as well. For instance, complaining that you don't answer her directly, to see if you will. Or telling you that what you're doing is annoying to her. Get the idea. The best advice I can give is to go here, http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook and buy the book. Also, go to www.askmen.com/ At the home page, look for tab “dating and sex.” Click on it and begin your journey to truly understanding why women play so many games and how to deal with it.


Lee