Wednesday, August 18, 2010

I worry about me and my boyfriends relationship.. Advice?!?

Me%26amp;my boyfriend have been dating for five exciting months. But we tend to fight twice a week or so, and i hate it. And he is sorta a ';flirt'; and ';ladies man'; and I trust him well try to but sometimes i can't because of the way he is/ acts. He has a short temper and gets easily angered so i'm careful what i say but i say what's on my mind to him, but it leads to some kind of fighting, we make up in like five minutes or less though. But i don't know if i could live everyday like that.





Advicee ?!I worry about me and my boyfriends relationship.. Advice?!?
Does sound like he cares or respects your feelings. He is behaving in a very selfish way and is displaying emotional immaturity. Not a good prospect for future happiness. My advice is to find someone that is happy with themselves and not needing outside influence to make them feel worthy. Good luck for the future.I worry about me and my boyfriends relationship.. Advice?!?
Maybe instead of being accusatory (or maybe he's perceiving you as being accusatory), bring up things that are bothering you with open-ended questions for him to answer. Also, give a lot of ';I'; statements rather than ';you'; statements. For example, you can say ';I feel disrespected when you get flirty with other girls'; rather than saying ';you're always so flirty with girls, I hate that';. ...or something to that affect. The goal is to try to open up communication and let him know how you feel without taking it into fighting mode where you're both on the defensive.
Sort of a flirt and Ladies man huh? And you fight twice a week or so? Well maybe he fights with you to have an excuse to see other women. No one's temper is that short honey. If you have to be ';Careful'; of what you say to him and can't speak your mind, then something is definitely wrong with that picture! Just because you make up in five minutes or less doesn't mean that he cares one bit. He sounds extremely childish and selfish. My guess is that he is cheating, maybe you should ask the Ladies Man?





RG
try and talk to him if it carries on dump him. u deserve way better than him if he treats u like this. hope this helps.
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