I'm in love with a guy who acts like he don't care about me but deep down i know he is but recently i met another guy who really cares iv known him for two weeks now he said he loves me %26amp; we kissed today !! but then i cried alot i felt like i was cheating on him ( i mean the first one ) iv known him for 3 years %26amp; he didn't even said he loved me we do wat every bf %26amp; gf do but still becuz he know i love him sooo much he feel secured with me but he didn't said it he don't buy me things even in my bd he didn't gave me anything but i was generous ith him i trust him soo much buti don't trust the new guy wat should i do ??? I really need ur experiance in a relationship (advice) plz help me ?
i think that:
the first guy: although you like him so much, it sounds to me he treats you like nothing. i know you love him but hes not doing his part and loving you back, and you hav known him for THREE YEARS!!
the second guy:
i dont think you should be interactive with him either, you said you dont trust him but then you kiss him? what? i think your leading him in the rong direction. if you like him do what ever you want, but if you dont, dont interact.
i suggest finding a new guy that you like even more. a guy that loves you back.
hope i helped.
hellowfellowyellow ^_^I really need ur experiance in a relationship (advice) plz help me ?
Be careful. Sometimes when someone says they love you that fast, they don't mean it. Even if you spent all day everyday with him for the past 2 weeks, do you guys know everything about each other. Do you have any flaws that he doesn't know about? How could he love you if he doesn't even know everything about you. This first guy on the other hand seems too distant for being together 3 years. I think he may be doing the same thing you are...talking to someone else. I think that you should move on to this new guy but don't get too caught up in everything. :)
Lets start off by saying Are you Crazy? If this man has never told you that he loves you then why would you believe that he does. Plus not giving you anything on your bd. That's the lowest. If you keep doing the things that bf and gf do (having sex ) then why should he have to tell you that he loves you. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
Tell him you kissed someone else
and tell him exactly how you feel.
be like: YOU ';didn't even said he loved me ';
AND YOU ';acts like he don't care about me ';
but fix up the grammar a bit.
Tell em' all you are going to take a break until you get this all sorted out. Then stop playing these kind of games with yourself and others. You never win.
what are you even asking ?
You need to sit down with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel don't give up yet, or make sure this relationship is Worth saving and if you don't trust the new guy leave him alone you don't need to be confused about both guys. so i advised that you need to talk to your man first ad see if he wants to change or is willing to change wait it out and see if he go's through with his word and if he doesn't go through through with his word than leave him alone and mess with someone who shows you he cares not someone you don't trust and certainly not anyone who you have to guess dose he care or not good luck with that honey
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