Give the correct advice about my relationship and maybe you will get 10 points?

Me and my gf/ex, moe, got together 07/02/06. ( so for a little over a yr and 2 months). throughout the relationship we have both done bad things. Sometimes i overract over the smallest things, and one time when we went on a break i attempted to kiss this other girl but it didnt even happen. She has lied to me about many things, mostly about being with other people, once with this guy i hated, and now she lied about being w/ this girl that likes her. She ended up kissing the girl twice (which is so hypocritical since she was just yelling at me for attempting to kiss that girl on our break). and the other girl thinks they are dating and sent me a mean message saying to give up and that moe just wants to be friends. When i confront moe saying i dont wanna tlk to u anymore, especially when that bi*ch is in your life, she said she'd tell her to screw off just to get me to look at her again. She says she wants to be w/ me, but then she says we fight too much. i love her. do i stay w/ her?Give the correct advice about my relationship and maybe you will get 10 points?
Well, you guys have gone through a lot of stuff and only you can measure if your love is worth the pain, do you know what I mean? I could tell you Yes go back with her or HELL NO don't do that! but only you have gone through everything and can tell what's best to do so this is my suggestion.


Close your eyes and ask yourself: Do I really love Moe that much that I'm willing to give it another try and go for it? Is this really worth it? And I'm possitively sure the answer will come to you really fast.


Good luck with everything and my best wishes to you.Give the correct advice about my relationship and maybe you will get 10 points?
Sounds like too much trouble to maintain.





Also a pointer for you: place blame where blame is due. Just because she may have kissed someone YOU don't approve of is not a reason to strike out at anybody and everybody. You need to address YOUR issues with HER and leave everyone else OUT OF IT, even if they try to meddle and influence the outcome.





If it's true that you fight a lot, perhaps she doesn't like that and doesn't want it. Who instigates these fights? ';I overreact over the smallest things?...'; Perhaps you need to review what's worth fighting over and what isn't. Dealing with touchy subjects works a lot better with clear communication in a relaxed manner as opposed to yelling and name-calling.





There's a saying that goes: ';The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.'; To me it sounds like your relationshipo with Moe is too damaged to salvage. So, with your NEXT partner, make a pact to BE HONEST with one another, BE GENTLE when it comes to disagreements, and exercise some self-control when it comes to doing ';bad things.';





Thing is, it sounds like you KNOW what you should do. You just need to do them.
Wow - sounds like a big convoluted mess to me, with a lot of deception and game-playing going on. Have you considered finding a boyfriend? IF you can find a straight one out there, that might help to facilitate some stability in your life. Good luck, whatever you decide!
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seems like you've been through a lot together...mostly drama. I personally wouldn't stay, you shouldn't be with someone that doesn't know how to be honest. Honesty is the most important factor in any relationship, without that there's no trust and well...with no trust, there isn't really a relationship in the first place, at least not a healthy one.


good luck.
I believe you need to see someone else and move on with your life.All of that animosity is stressful and damaging to any relationship.There appears to be too many problems to overcome.The bottom line is that it will only get worse.And who wants to live every day fighting and arguing?If you love something,set it free...Ever heard that?If you two were meant to be together,time will bring you full circle and you will not have done or said awful things to one another.Sometimes in order to show your love,you just have to walk away.If she is that crazy about you,she will cut her ties and follow you.Otherwise,time will heal those things that you cant fix right now.No ugly words,and no hard feelings no matter how much it hurts you.Stay strong and you will be better off for it in the long run.Hugs!
No. Sounds like you both need to do some growing up before you are ready to make a commitment to just one person. That isn't a bad thing- that is just what people need to do before they are ready to settle down with just one person. You aren't ready yet. Play the field - enjoy spending times with lots of different people so you know what you like and dislike about being with people. Then when you think the right person is in your life you will have some experience and know if you are ready to stop looking to see what else is out there.
OK, being brutally honest, it sounds like you *both* have issues in your lives you need to resolve before you can committ one hundred per cent to a relationship with anyone.





People who care about each other don't want to spend time making each other miserable, fighting about rubbish and playing headgames with each other.





Your relationship sounds more like some sort of nasty competition than a loving space you can go to for comfort, warmth and companionship in this harsh world.





Maybe you could consider couples or individual counselling, or having a 'break' from relationships altogether for a while, until you figure out just what it is you want in your own life, and from your partner.





Good luck and best wishes :-)
i think that if you still love her you should try to make it work. but only if she stops cheating on you. maybe you should take a longer break. a break where you can both cool down, sleep with other people etc... try couple counseling too.
10 points lol =] i have like almosr 3k of those things
Take a step back and look at the relationship. Both of you have strayed...she has lied...you say you fight too much. I think it might be time to call it quits. You tired a break before and that didn't work. It might be better to end it for good.