Monday, August 23, 2010

Mature Answers Only Please/ Relationship/Sex Advice!!!?

hey everyone, i have a lil problem and i need to know what everyone else would do if they were in this situation, especially the woman,.





ok, lemme start by saying my bf is 25, im 24 and we been dating for a lil over a yr and a half. i dooo love him and he loves me more then anyone else in this entire world, he is a very goodlooking guy and does have a great body BUTTTTT for some reason i find myself never wanting to be sexual with him. i do it only for him, but im never in the mood to anymore. like ever. hes not the best i have ever been with but hes not bad by any means. i dont know what to do. i find myself wanting to cheat all the time. and i think if the chance was there id do it. but we do live together anddddd i do love him and dont wanna break up. i think. i cant imange anyone loving me more or treating me better then he does. so my question is, if u were in this position what would u do. is it time to break up??? thanks in advance!Mature Answers Only Please/ Relationship/Sex Advice!!!?
sounds like you have no desire... has something happened recently???





do you feel sexual desire any other time???Mature Answers Only Please/ Relationship/Sex Advice!!!?
no it's time to spice it up. get creative. Make it fun for you too. It's not that you want to cheat it's that you're bored. adn get ou tfo that mind set that ';you do it for him'; that's not helping the situation. Go to a ';toy store'; find something interesting to you and intorduce it to him. That way when you go in the bedroom with him it's for BOTH of you and you'll find yourself enjoying each other and the realtionship a little more.
TCS, you are not being fair here. Did you tell him what you wanted while he made love to you? If not, we men are not mind readers. If you want something to be done sit down and talk to him about it. Don't fall for 80/20 rule. You have 80 percent with your bf and 20 percent of you want to give to someone for sex. Not good odds.





If you know you are going to cheat then he really deserves better than what you can offer to him. Good luck.
he was looking at next womans fanny he was?


he s looking for diffrent fanny he is?


he'z tired of your fanny he is!!


save save next womanz fanny
PLEASE DO NOT let your sex drive or lack of it for this man screw him up!!!!!!! If you have thought about being a cheater, leave him and never return. If you have had these thoughts you have cheated in the past and you will at least always have these thoughts. PLEASE do not screw him up.
you know i have been in that situation where i gave and done everything for the girl i was with and i was good to her in everyway but she had the urge to cheat and thats what you are feeling too and the love is their but your feelings are not and if you dont feel comfortable keeping your self sacred to him only i suggest that you tell him and be honest and say that you love him but you desire to be with other men and are thinking about it too and tell him that you dont want to hurt him and try to talk and work something out so that you two will stay togather and not break up.what you have to do is look into your mind and ask yourself what do you really want and is he giving you and making you feel how you really want to feel.and if not tell him on what you want done to you and how to make you feel better so that you will not have to think about sleeping with other men.and dont hurt him or his feelngs because it hurts and the nice guys that are out here are trying to find a woman that we can give all our love to and then we end up getting hurt because we do our best and its not good enough and then we hear why are men such jerks is because they meet the wrong ones.in this case you have a good man and if you lose him you will regret for the rest of your life.i know because my ex wants me back and what she done to me i cant forget,maybe one day i will but for now,im looking for my one and only.take care and god bless and i hope everything works out.
sounds like sex is just getting a bit same old same old. He is probably feeling the same way! Spice things up do something you wouldn't normal do. like dress up or role playing you may find he excels at it and you fancy him all over again!
Perhaps this e-book can help you with your relationship? It's a free download so it's worth a shot I think.

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