Rocky relationship?!?!? need advice?

we have been in a long distance thing for nearly 1 year 3 months, the first 8 months were great, the next 2-3 were pretty good and the last 2-3 haven't been so hot, she hasn't been the same since we broke up, she kissed another guy and then tried to get back with me, but the bottom line is it hasn't been great, she doesn't seem as interested in seeing me, how can i get her to see its very important if we are going to rekindle, i mean the last time we saw each other it was like everything was the same as it used to be, it was great, now im planing for her to come her for the holidays and i want to make it nice and stress free, she used to want to come so bad, now everything has changed, its like i do all the work, and she barely even asks. how can i get my power back and feel like im not walking on eggshells





ThanksRocky relationship?!?!? need advice?
You should have a serious talk with her to tell you the truth. She probably know what's is happening but you don't. You seem to be a nice guy and you don't need to walk on eggshells. If she is not interested in you anymore, you have the right to know that. You need to keep moving on. Don't try to figure out thing by yourself.. Stop doing all the work. Rocky relationship?!?!? need advice?
You need to express yourself to her, and work on the issues with her but don't attack her.
you can do better. i mean come on! she kissed another guy, of course your relationship will be awkward. she should be the one trying to make it work. dont waste your breath on her, shes a huge idiot for losing interest in a guy like you.
I think an important question is how long is this long distance thing supose to be for? If there isn't a chance in the near future (near meaning 1 year max) to be together like a proper relationship. it starts to get stale. long distance is crazy hard work. you start missing the intamacy and it looks like shes trying to find it some place else. if theres going to be an end to this long distance, like your planning to be together for good latter you should try to help her keeep the eye on the prize but if Long distance is how its gonna be for what seems like forever u both will fade out.
Vin C,


I think that if she really cared about you she shouldn't put you in a ';eggshell'; type situation. I think that all great relationship starts out amazingly, then comfortable, and then finds it's way to just flame out. Just tell her whats on your mind or just make her know that if you're going to be together again that its not a game. That your in a relationship together and the feelings should be reciprocated.





Just don't give in so fast if she wants to get back with you. You like her but your not going to risk your heart for her if she doesn't care. I don't quite know how to say it... but make her work for the relationship, play hard to get. Don't be clingy but don't act like she isn't even worth your time.





hope i helped somehow...
As a woman I'm gonna be straight with you.





She's not interested.


Sorry man. That's life. Sometimes you roll a 2 when you really need a 6 you know.





You sound like a very good guy and I don't think you deserve to be treated like that.


You're not happy with it and it sounds like she's not either.


You're gonna have to talk with her about it in a serious manner.





Sometimes it's best to move on.


Long distance things never work out