How do I approach this situation? Sex/relationship advice NEEDED!?

Me and boyfriend have been dating for 8 months (we're 16) and we hook up a lot. and because of this I got birth control a few months ago because I wanted to start having sex and he did too. so after I started taking it we had sex for the first time, but i was the one to start it and everything..and he couldn't even get up. he's a shy guy and I know he wanted to but he's just shy. so we still did it though it was just kinda awkward but I enjoyed it once we had intercourse. the second time we tried we couldn't cause he couldn't get up again..so we just never ended up doing it. it's been like three months since that and we haven't had sex,,and I'm still on the pill. Is he ever going to have sex with me? I want to be on the pill for a reason.. It's expensive too. What do I do? I want to have sex...and he does too I think. How do I approach this?How do I approach this situation? Sex/relationship advice NEEDED!?
It sounds like he's nervous. Maybe you two need to relax and not rush into intercourse when you're in ';the mood.'; If you slow down, he'll probably become more aroused. Do you say or do anything that tells him, ';I want you!'; (other than him just knowing you want to have sex with him)? Make sure he knows that you feel he's the sexiest thing alive, and that you really want him badly!How do I approach this situation? Sex/relationship advice NEEDED!?
try asking him it sounds like he dosent want to have sex
ask this young man what his intentions are you maybe bullying him into something he's not ready for ! :)d
It sounds like he is not comfortable with having sex to me.


If he just had the problem of not being able to get hard (which happens to alot of guys who do want to and do find you attractive it's just their nerves) he wouldn't be waiting.


Since you want to and on the pill really the only thing holding him back from at least trying is just not wanting to.


Talk to him about it, that's all you can do.


Good luck
If you have been hooking up and dating for 8 months, he's probably not gay, but he could just be very nervous around you. Talk to him about how he feels about you sexually, and wait for him to make the first move. Try to get him when he's in a good mood and you guys are completely alone, and maybe he'll be relaxed and comfortable enough for you guys to have sex again.
many things can effect it. Drugs can have a huge effect Pay attention to his caffeine intake

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