I Need Some Advice On A Relationship?

What do you do when the man you love keeps telling you he loves you but constantly helps out a woman he was dating on and off for 20 years? Right before Christmas he told me he felt guilty and until he resolves his issues with her, he can't see me, but that he will end it.I Need Some Advice On A Relationship?
Try to stay away from him--he sounds like he's got you BOTH on a string. Are you positively certain that he is not married? I know that you've said that you love him (which makes this so painful-i'm sorry) but he's got no idea of what the word means if he's unable to commit to Lady #1 after 20 years and now is stringing you along too. I'd tell you to watch the movie ';The Holiday'; and know that you're worth more than what he's willing to give you. Good Luck and God Bless you! :)I Need Some Advice On A Relationship?
awww... im sry. he needs closure with his ex that is for sure and no matter what u do or say rite now can change that. cuz bein with someone for 20 yrs is hard to let go of. how long ago did they break it off? keep in consideration of how their relationship was, he may want to get bak with her... i kno it sucks but u wouldn wanna be with someone who has someone else on his mind and keeps in contact with u kno? everyone deserves to be loved to the fullest... he may not have been the one for u. i give him props for telling u about it instead of his going behind ur bak. at least he has that much respect. otherwise i would say dont wait around for this guy if he realized he made a mistake. go with ur gut obviously he did. let him kno u deserve all the love u can get and have to offer. hope i helped. good luck
forget it, he's still emotionally involved with her, probably still sleeps with her as well, you deserve better
confront him, u need to tell him exactly how u feel and u need to tell him to do it now before u find someone else cz let me tell u their are great dudes outtheir