Mature relationship question....advice needed?

Should I spend the entire weekend with my boyfriend?


Okay so here is the deal. My boyfriend and I are both mid 20's. We have been best friends for a while and decided to have a romantic relationship since about a month ago. We have a long distance relationship. I haven't seen him since a few years ago....we became great friends about a year ago and then a month ago it developed into something more. We are both virgins. But he wants me to spend the entire weekend with him because of the distance....should I or will this be awkward and too tempting to have sex? i just wondered if it would be awkward spending the night considering this is the first time we have seen eachother in a few years?Mature relationship question....advice needed?
I don't think anyone can really assess the situation better than you can. We don't know anything about the relationship you have with him. We don't know about your religious and moral beliefs. Bring up this topic with him, and you will probably come to a conclusion most fitting for you personally.Mature relationship question....advice needed?
You don't sound comfortable with it, so don't trap yourself. Of course I think you should go, but wherever it is you'll meet, arrange have a hotel room of your own to go to whenever you want to.
It doesn't sound like there's much passion there. I don't think sex is on the menu, might as well go.
If you don't want to have sex, and can't control yourself, don't do it. It's up to you. Whatever you do, do it because you WANT to.
it will be awkward but you should go spend time with him to catch up and everything because its not like everyday your going to see him
Spend the weekend together with no expectations of what could happen. Go in with an open mind (and separate beds/rooms if it makes you feel more comfortable!) and see what happens. Just view the weekend as two friends getting together and nothing more.





If you both are waiting until marriage (which is a guess, since you said you are both virgins and you're mid-20's), I'm sure you will respect eachother's boundaries in that regard.





I had a similar situation (he and I were mid-20's as well), and it ended up being one of the best nights of my life...spending time with someone who was a good friend, LOTS time for heart-to-heart talks (mind connection = sexy!!), and probably the greatest, sweetest ';first kiss'; I've ever had (he was SOO shy, you could see him mustering up the courage to do it!)! That weekend made everything come into perspective in terms of how we felt about one another, and made me realize what it felt like to love someone from the inside-out since we had spent our first few months ';together' on the phone or texting since he was overseas, so we fell in love with the mind and not the body...if that makes sense?