This is stupid, I know, but I got involved with a guy that I met over the Internet. We talk every chance that we get. It's been going on for far too long. I've tried ';getting rid of him'; numerous times, but he sort of threatens me, saying he'll call my Father and tell him that we've been talking. My Father is a hardcore conservative and he's totally, 100% against Internet relationships. That's just it though, I dON'T want a relationship with this guy. It's just nice to know that he's there for me when I need to talk to someone. I know there HAS to be someone out there who understands. What can I do? It just seems to me like there's no way out of this. I'm 18, however I still live with my parents and I respect my Father, a lot. I can't even bare the thoughts of this guy calling my Father up. There has to be someone out there who understands what I'm going through here. If this guy was just out of my life, I swear I would NEVER, never, NEVER get into a situation like this again,Internet ';Relationship'; whatever... advice please?
Break all communication with him. How can he tell your dad? I don't get that bit...I doubt he really will. And IF he does phone your dad up, tell him you don't know who the guy is. The best way is to completely ignore him. I got involved with a guy on the internet and he wouldn't stop bothering me even when I told him to stop it. Eventually he got the message and didn't phone me / text me anymore.
Good luck!Internet ';Relationship'; whatever... advice please?
Dear young lady,
This Is gone well beyond ';The Nuisance Factor';. This Is a Police matter. I don,t think you are facing facts as much as you are ';Telling them';.
You Say!!?, you respect your father a lot?. Now Is the time to trust that respect by telling him. Get everyone you love Involved get rid of this Sicko like Yesterday.
I dont buy the ';Its Nice to know';, he,s ther bit of your letter?. Who are you kidding but yourself. Burn The B-----d Once and for all. Do whatever it takes?. Or, ';Is It A case Of You ';HAVE NO BOTTLE';?. I don,t think so.
Go on for your sake, prove me totally wrong.
Lotsa love from tom 777.
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dude, i got into that.
tell him to **** off.
thats basically it.
he wont call your dad.
i met this stephen kid online,
hes a jerk.
move on, forget him.
my grades dropped because of that kid.
dont let it happen to you.
if he DOES call your father,however.
you should be like ';dad, i have NO idea who that is';
You should not believe someone whom you met at internet.
block his number, so he cant call you and i dunno how old he is my i think he needs to grow up i mean the whole( I'm going to call your daddy type sh!t) is something a 4 year old would say
Hes probably lying how would he know your dad
NEVER NEVER NEVER give any personal details
Change your email address
Rely on real friends for advice and support
If he bothers you again, or contacts your family, tell the police.
You need to stop feeling sorry for him! He is a weirdo who stalks young girls and he is very in the wrong, not you! My advice is to report him! The chances are he won't call up and if your dad did answer he wouldn't have the balls to speak! This is harressment-DO NOT spend another second on this nutcase! PS Don't give personal details out next time! They nearly always seem 'friendly' then turn out to be total nutters!
well, i met my girl on here................. so, theres good n bad to it all!!! i look at it as meeting some1 close.......... ya don't know anything bout the person until ya start talkin to them!!! as far as that guy goes........ seems a little psycho!!! i mean, if u met him somewhere but not online, he'd b at ur house and all that.............. still psycho!!! just stop talkin to him all together!!!
Tell your dad what you have done, blackmail only works when you try and hide from the truth. Come clean and then drop this guy like a bad habit, and when he threatens to tell your dad, well, you don't have to worry about that anymore.
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