Dating/relationship question? advice please.. :/?

(it's ashleys cousin)





alright. it's not a dating relationship, just a friendship at this point. but i'm really into him.








i'm just getting mixed signals.




















i want things to work out with this kid without straight up bing like i like you you idiot.








we hang out and talk every day.


we flirt everyday. and it's mutual.








just some days he seems strictly friend- ish. and tells me that were just friends but like right after that-- the next day or a couple hours later, he'll flirt like crazy and blush and smile around me.








expecially lately since his friends fiance came into town and we've been spending ALOT of time together.... when it sjust us he seems like completely into me. thats why i'm so confused lately. whenever it was me him and andy he was different and distant.














please be honest and tell me what you really think not what you think i wanna hear...Dating/relationship question? advice please.. :/?
Okay, honestly? Here's what I think:


He likes you. However, he enjoys the easy friendship that you have. because of this, he doesn't want to admit to anyone (including himself) that he likes you, because he knows you like him and he knows what you would say/do if he were to tell you he likes you or ask you out. He doesn't want to do that because he doesn't want to ruin your friendship. He'd like to go out with you, but at the same time, he wants things to stay the same. Hon, he's even more confused than you are right now. Go easy on him, maybe match his mood swings to see his reactions. The rest plays out on it's own.


Trust me, the same thing happened to me last year(ugh) and I know it's hard. But you can't do anything to change what's happening; only he can do that, and you trying to help right now will only give him a bigger headache. The best thing to do is to lay low, keep doing what you're doing, maybe ease up on him a bit, hang out with him a little less, flirt a little less. Give him some space. Either he'll begin to want less space between you ;) or he'll appreaciate the space. Either way, you'll make him happy, and odds are, you'll be happier too.Dating/relationship question? advice please.. :/?
Well, you're pretty cute, so he probably thinks you are out of his league. He probably thinks that the flirting and such is just friendly. He could be shy. I know it's not the norm, but make a move. Like if yall are walking together, reach out and grab his hand. If yall are laughing and flirting, and it gets to that silent part, lean over and give him a kiss on the cheek. See if he goes back for your lips. You may have to make a move, or just simply ask him if you would be someone he would be interested in dating.
i do believe that if he really likes you, he'll tell it himself - he'll make the first move, not you(!), even if you like him more.





i say, either wait, or ask him - although asking him would be not romantic at all... because you made the first move, not him. it is like you defending your guy, not the other way around.





waiting? remember, patience is a virtue!





or give your self a deadline. if he doesn't make a move, then it's time to move on to a new more bold guy.
It sounds to me that he's comfused about the whole situation as well. He likes you, but worries about the consquences that will follow. Say u guys go out and date, blah blah, but then break up. A friendship will more than likely be altered or lost completely. That's scary. OR he doesn't want to freak u out by ';laying it on thick'; if ur not overly flirty with him, he might think u don't like him the way he does. Just ask him about is there any girls that he likes, and try to dig deeper.
i think he likes u


but he doesnt want his friend to kno


cuz maybe he likes you


and maybe thats why he acts distant sometimes


but when its just u and him he can be totally into you at that time cuz no ones there to ruin it


get what im saying?


kinda confusing i kno


but thats all i got


good luck girl!


lovelovelove


Audrey


=)
If you want him to stop playing games... Then stop playing games yourself. Woman up and tell him what you want. That is the ONLY way you will know where you stand with him.





If your not ready to talk to him about the relationship, then your not ready to have a relationship
FRIENDS FLIRT, KISS YOU ON THE CHEEKS, PLAY WITH YA, TICKLE, LAUGH AT YA, TELL YOU THEIR DEEPEST SECRETS ETC, HE'S ACTING LIKE A BEST BUDDY, IF YOU WANT THIS TO GO FARTHER ASK HIM HOW WOULD HE FEEL IF YOU BOTH GOT SERIOUS....IF HE STILL ONLY WANTS A FRIENDLY FRIENDSHIP, DON'T READ ANYTHING INTO HIS FLIRTY AND DISTANCE WAYS
you dont have to TELL him, but you can give him signals.





try being a little more, ';touchy'; maybe grab his hand or hug/hold onto him for no reason
i didn't read that because of all the unnecessary spaces between the lines, but your picture is cute i'd do you.
stop farting around him and he will open up.
I did'nt really read your question but i am assuming it has something to do with testing your relationship. Heres what you do. Walk up to him and start crapping and pissing all over yourself. then fling it onto him using your tail. If he really loves you, then he will do whatever the hell it is this question is about. If not, then he is just a regular guy. not wanting crap and piss all over him. Can't really blame him, you crazy chick, slingin your feces and piss every wich way, ya freak! LIke you think it's all right or somethin, creeps me out being around freaks like you.
What you have to understand about guys is that they don't like it when word lets out they like someone. True or not. They are very cautious and sometimes won't tell anyone. I usually don't. But i have been on the guy's side of this. And what the girl did was smart. She took me to the side alone and said ';I don't want you to beat around the bush, do you like me or not? And i want you to know if you say yes then i'm not gonna like ignore you or anything'; this really made me feel more comfortable and i told her i did. If you want to know then you should say what she did and ask him why he acts the way he does. Hope that helps.