Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Serious relationship/friendship advice please..? :(?

is it WEIRD to reeeeaally like a close guy friend, and EVERYONE, including him, know that. PLUS, he likes me back, and we've told each other this before, so we both know. Is it weird if we AREN'T going out? so many people are pushing us too, and it just makes everything weird. People are telling us to kiss and whatnot and they just stare at us until we do, and the only reason we dont is because that way its too forced and non-realistic. They are also saying how lame we are and TRYING to make things better. Is this right of them? Because they're not even doing it to help anymore; its just because it ANNOY them to see us NOT go out[yes theyve told me this]......helllllllllllllllllllp? DDD:Serious relationship/friendship advice please..? :(?
No that isn't weird at all. It's quite common for friends to like to each other and not be dating. I been in this situaion before a few times and yes I know how associates and people are. They get all up in your business and pressure you guys into doing intimate activities that couples do. Don't listen to those people and take your time. You don't want to end up in something you don't want later on. Peer pressure is a bi1ch at times! I know! To make your friendship last long with your guy friend, don't engage in sexual things with him until you start dating and even after that, make him wait long until he gets some. That's if you are sexually active which I wouldn't know.lol








They called yall lame?? They're just some haters and nosey @ss people! It's none of they're fukking business what yall decide to do! That's up you to. Don't listen to them and don't let them influence you. You can be friends with a person of the opposite sex and be attracted to them. There is no law that says you can't kiss and cuddle up with a boy if he isn't your boyfriend. I mean, I had girls I kissed and had private relations with and weren't offically boyfriend/ girlfriend. But we had rules like staying faithful to each other and such..





So yea, ignore your friends and take ALL the time you need to think about taking your friendship further with your special friend. There is no rush. Remember, you are in control of your life, your destiny..remember that. :-D
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