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me and this boy had a thing for a few weeks and then he asked me to be his girlfriend, i couldn't of been happier. he then broke up with me recently because of baseball getting in the way, and my golf season getting in the way. he said a few days ago that we'd get back together once they ended [which is in like a week.] but recently, i went to school and heard he liked this girl named megan. i don't know what to do. i sent a text message to him to see if he'd talk to me, and i never go a response. i don't want to call him and seem bothersome whatsoever. i really miss him. he was like my bestfriend. i don't know what to do. i'm close to tears. will someone please help me?10 points for this! i need relationship advice.?
Thats awesome you play golf. I wanna meet you lol.


Hey chin up, your young and so if it doesn't work out with him theres like a billion other guys out there.


Good Luck!10 points for this! i need relationship advice.?
I Think that's the problem with girls. Desperation. What are you going to do if he says he wants to be with this other girl? So I will say move on. It really is not as hard as you think. I was in a relationship for 5 years, he left me and after 3 days I was fine. But I was always scared to end it. So I think if I can do that after 5 years, you can do it after a few weeks. Just don't seem so desperate. Not cute. Good Luck.
im sorry to hear about this, but your not the only one to be in this situation, I went threw this type of situations when i was younger...And im not saying this will work for you, but when i was in high school my boyfriend did almost the same thing 2me...its really hard to lose someone i know. but just try to stay positive and try to see him face to face and tell him how you feel. This way you can see his reaction and tell if he sincerely feels the same about you Goodluck
You should try to talk to him at school if he doesn't respond your text. You should also try to talk to his friends to see if he is going out with Megan. If things are getting serious with Megan, then I think that you should really talk to him and make a decision whether you still want to go out or you should ';just be friends';. You need to talk to him and be onanist.
okay first of all ! the first thing to do is not to panic or cry, because crying doesn't solve anything, if you really want him back, try go out and find out if he REALLY likes that Megan girl, dont just assume he likes her cause there are somethings out there call RUMORS, dont believe them ! :) talk to his friends about it. i know moving on is hard, in your situation you really dont have to, you just have to communicate ! hope this helps :D and hope your situation turns out good soon!!
Well he obviously doesnt care about you anymore. If you do care then you should confront him yourself, dont text because the more you text the more annoying it will be for him. Just talk to him face to face and ask him what does he really wants. Cuz it really hard to get someone back when they have liked another person. I think he is just a player.
well, if you are worried that he dosnt want to respond then just come up to him and ask him in person. this way he will have to respond. also, you shouldnt be afraid to ask him if he is your good friend. i am in a similar relationship and i agree,'; just moving on'; isnt easy. there is probably also a lot of stress if it is in school. if you really miss him, you should not suffer. i bet he wants to be with you just as much as you want to be with him. hope this helps!!
Sorry Sweetie, I'm sure I won't get the 10 points or whatever, but he likes someone else. MOVE ON.


He probably just gave you that lame baseball excuse to soften the blow that he just wasn't that into you.


Don't be that girl that obsesses over some dude. You'll be fine. Go out and have fun and meet some other cute boy. No biggie.
I know you do not want to hear it but that seems like the best thing to do. You texted him, but you did not get a response. It seems to me that you're the only one in this relationship that is trying. Indeed you want him back but sometimes what we want is not exactly what we need. My advice to you is move on. You deserve better then him do not settle.


Good luck :)
You are in love with the guy you want him to be and not the guy he is. Believe me true love cannot be disrupted by golf or baseball or Megan. Better things will come to you... And let yourself cry, it's ok to be disappointed...





Let him go and open your mind to other possibilities.
Believe me, I dated a couple of guys and it wasn't easy to move on when they left me. In a relationship, things have to work. He broke up with you for a reason and that's just it. You can't really force a person to like you. It sucks, its depressing, but what can you do?
well even if he doesn't like Megan show him what oyur worth prove yourself guys are visual look cute and try flirting with him as a go for it type of signal to him i know nothing about relationships and have never had one even though i'm 16 (i'm not ugly, pinky swear) but it sounds like decent advise to me
come straight out and be like ';tell me the truth. do you like me or megan?'; and if he gets pissy about it, then forget him! you're probably a very pretty and nice girl and can get more guys! that is too bad, though hun! :( i've been in a similar situation.


best of luck.


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just call him- its not pesky, its rude of him not to call you. ask him what the deal is (and if he doesnt answer, leave a message). as long as you don't have his phone ringing off the hook, you are not being pesky.
wait until the season is over, if he's dating another girl or he does ask you back, then you kno. hoped i help. \





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impress him, dont be annoying. dont try to take him over. get him interested in you again.








although better sense would be. you should forget his lame a**. he was probably looking for an excuse to break up with you.
Talk to him in person. See what's up. Check if he still likes you, and if he doesn't, tell him that you want to stay close, because you consider him to be your best friend.
i understand y u dont want to move on. love is a hard thing to ignore, just try to tlk to him about it, ask if he still likes u, %26amp; try to get things back up before u lose him
Call him and ask him if you two can talk. Then ask him to be honest and if he is willing to come back together. Nothing beats honesty from both ends.
if he likes the other girl and has ignored your texts he prob lost interest. if he was your best friend then try being his friend again and maybe you guys will get back together, especially if that megan thing doesn't work out.
Ask him if he would ever cheat on a girl acting like if it was someone else you were talking about.





or just ask him.... face 2 face
just call him...it will show him you truly do care about him and your feelings for him remain strong...don't give up on him whatever it takes unless he tells you to stop talking to him
You can't get him back. It sucks, but that's the way it is. Sorry.
i think u should tell him off but u sercetly follow him then u don't miss him and theres a way u can get rid of that girl......
Just talk to him about it. It will be hard but it is worth it. I've been in the same situation.
maybe it is best if you guys are friends and see were it goes from there





things like a relationship need time so don't rush it





i wish you good luck
Dump the bum.


You could probably do much better than him.
talk to him at school about it. or talk to megan and figure it out.
walk up to him and start talking- he cant ignore you if you talk to him face to face lol
send him another text message and try to get him back.
I would just go up to him and ask him straight up if he likes that girl cuz maybe thats not true MAYBE that megan girl likes him an she told people to tell you that so you would back off, so you should ask him about it cuz you shouldn't always believe what you hear. And maybe he didn't text you back cuz he never got it. Tell him how you feel and hey who knows he might feel the same way. Stop thinking negatively, think positive, don't assume things i bet your just freaking out over nothing. you should always think positive i promise you things will be a whole lot eaier if you do. and you said that you guys are getting back together in a week, what is there to be upset about? hes yours. :) and if what you heard is true then you can still continue to be his friend and possibly the feelings he had or has for you are still there and you guys will be together. once someone developes feelings for someone they won't just go away. I really hopes this helps you cuz I know what your going threw. Good luck.