Relationship urgent advice ..should i get rid of him?

hi guys


there s the situation im going out with that guy over a year we both mature ppl...the thing is i dnt know wats wrong with him..his life is..work, home tv .playing games..we only see each other at work...he doesn't really want or he is so lazy to come to my house he was here last time moth ago he doesn't live that far from me....


Im8 years younger than him and im attractive gal which he knows pretty good cos a lot of times he was shouting on me at work using professional reasons that i was misbehave but it was his jealousy..


i dnt knw wat to do at the beginning he acted in different way he was caring,loving etc


I have to mention to im a guardian to my little brother ..they really likes each other and he treat him as his own son...


Do u think his behaving in that way cos he used it to me and like he thinks hedoesn'tt have to try or show any effort?


I m just wondering how he could find so sure that i will stay with him while he is behaving in that way?


I found another job so in 2 weeks time im leaving and im hoping that if we dnt see each other at work maybe he would start acting normally?


I hadmiscarriagee 3 moths ago and he was supportive that way but i think for now even i do love him im just fed up....Relationship urgent advice ..should i get rid of him?
Going to work at a different job is the best thing you could do for yourself. You will soon find out if he is willing to make the effort to see you. Back off and don't contact him - wait for him to take the initiative. This will clearly show you how important you are in his life.





His actions in your workplace were extremely immature. You may notice his immaturity in other ways as well.





Is his job physically demanding where he is tired when he comes home and therefore wants to sit in front of the television? If you are there to do everything for him, he may feel that he does not have to do anything.Relationship urgent advice ..should i get rid of him?
It sounds like he's taking advantage of you.





I think you've got a lot more into this relationship than he does. There's a good chance his ';video games'; are him going out with women his own age.





With how you're typing it sounds like you're pretty young. If those 8 years mean you're half his age, it's just too much age difference to make up.
I think that the two of you are looking for two different things in this relationship.





Maybe you should have more of a definitive talk with him and see what it is that he is looking for.





p.s. Sounds like you are looking for an exclusive guy and he is looking for a way to past free time.
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