Sunday, July 25, 2010

What should i do? i need relationship advice!?

me and my boyfriend/fiancee have been together for over two years. at about nine months he cheated on me, he said he wanted to take a break and that he wasn't looking for anyone else, i told him if im not your everything, then im nothing. the next day at school he tried to be all over me and kiss on me and stuff, i told him that he could only do that if he was my boyfriend because i wasn't like that, i told him to please be my boyfriend again and he said no, i can't. That night he cheated on me. he just told me that he planed it with her. he went up to her work and she told him to come back when she got off at mid-night, they had sex right there in her car in the HEB parking lot. should i leave him because he lied for so long, or should i stay since i already forgave him for cheating? he just won't stop lying to me, it took him two years to tell me ';just a piece of the truth';, how do i know he isn't hiding more from me? we are supposed to be getting married this coming march, should i still do it? What should i do? i need relationship advice!?
1. If he broke up with you then you too weren't a couple and he wasn't technically cheating. #2. He sounds like a pud anyway, chalk it up and move on. Life never takes anything away without replacing it with something more appropriate (better)What should i do? i need relationship advice!?
Leave. Obvious. You would see this if you were older.
Leave me he sounds like he doesn't love you. If he loved you he wouldn't be cheating on you and lying. I am sure you will find someone who will respect and love you someday, be strong everything will work out in the end.
leave him, he lied to u n said he wasnt lookin for anyone else when in fact he PLANNED having sex with someone else. n thats messed up


then he lied to it so yes im sure theres more that he's not tellin u about if a person cant be real about something big lke that then they are never gonna be honest with you and sht for all u know whe ya are like 50 he might tell u all the sht he really did bt he doesnt love u or respect u bc if he did he wouldnt of taken a break to fu** someone else. and u knw they didnt just meet n fu** so they had to have been planning it for a while, while he was with you.


he's no good girl i say dump his lyin *** and a break doesnt mean tht they can go and fu** whoever, its just some space bc if thats the case he shoulda broken up with you and not gone back to you. dont marry him bc he's no good.


imagine ya fight n he goes n takes a walk to walk off some steam does that mean he's gonna fuc** the 1st bit** he see's? he;s no good my advice is leave him n find someone who appreciates u and knows ur worth.



Your better off without him. If he has cheated on you multiple times, he will most likely continue to push the limit of seeing what he can get away with. You also said that you are still in school. Be it college or high school, you still have a lot of time ahead of you and a lot of connections to make. Hope this helped.
hello


the answer to your question can only be answered by yourself.


if you are willing to let a man keep stepping all over you .well that's your prerogative but personally if i was you id dump him like a bad habit,because there is only more heartbreak in the future for you with this guy



dump him now..if a guy cannot be trusted, then he isn't worth your love..it's not something that can be kissed and meked-up but love is something to be respected and treasured..if a guy cheats once, he sure can make that same mistake again..dump him before everything is too late..just a piece of advice..
this sounds harsh, but from experience, once a cheater, always a cheater. i hope it all works out for you though, no one deserves to be cheated and lied to.
okay, to be honest, i think your boyfriend needs to realize that he only ran away from the problem instead of facing it.


if he lied to you about it, it's a bad thing.


and you can't have a relationship let alone a marriage based on lies.


so you need to make him come out with everything he's lied to you about or just 'left out' or 'forgot to mention' if your ever going to be happy together.


that is if you really believe he's going to change.


everyone makes mistakes, but if he's not completely willing to tell you everything than he's not trying to change.


hope this helps.

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