Can someone please give me good relationship advice?

Ive been dating this girl for 2 years. She is my first girlfriend, first love, etc. But lately our relationship has been hell. We just dont seem to get along anymore. We fight about everything and im really starting to get more fed up as the days go by. She dont wanna end the relationship and wants to fix everything. The problem is.. i don't know if i do. I feel like im starting to want to experience knew things and try being with other people now. Theres this girl, who is also in a relationship which isn't working out, her first gf too and we both have been talking alot lately. We liked eachother before she even came out of the closet and accepted that she was gay. We always flirt now and are planning to hang out someday soon. I don't wanna be a cheater, i think it's horrible to cheat. But i don't know what i should do. I don't know what my relationship is coming to but i don't wanna pass up the chance of being with someone that i'm starting to really like and have liked. Please help!Can someone please give me good relationship advice?
Stacy - if you want to make a relationship work, it takes LOTS of work and time.....if you aren't willing to invest, end it now before it's harder to do in the future.





You shouldn't be talking to this girl...period. She and you are talking about relationship issues. And, you two are only seeing your own sides. What is happening is that even if you wanted to stay in your current relationship, you are developing feelings for someone else. (trust me....been there, done that). It will most likely lead to a horrible end to one if not both relationships.





Finish what you start. If you want it over, end it. And, don't start seeing this other girl, until you have cut the chord of your current situation. Clean up the baggage, so to speak. And, she should do the same before the two of you start seeing each other.





Remember this, basically what you both are doing is cheating. AND, if she will leave her GF for you, what makes you think she won't do the same to you?





Good luck....just remember to act in a way that shows respect to all parties. End it nice....it's much better for you in the future, if you do.Can someone please give me good relationship advice?
Don't cheat.


Obviously, don't do that.





Maybe if you sit down with your current girlfriend, and just tell her that, for you, things don't really seem to be working out like they used to, and you need some time to yourself. Still be friends with her, but give her space and time to heal.


You should probably stay alone for a little bit, and mabye if you're ready, go for the other girl you like.





But just keep in mind that both girls, and yourself will need to heal.





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two years is alot of time together and fighting everyday means you are seeing each other too much....take a break...and see if that settles down the arguing.





also use the break to see if you guys are better off ending the relationship or staying in it. dont use the break to date her lol as it may be classified as cheating. just use it to figure out what you want. then talk to her when you figure it out.
End it. Now





Or at the very least, have a decent break so that you can think with a clear head and decide what you want away from the pressure you're under





But DO NOT cheat, no matter how tempting it may be.
if you are really in love with her at this point, you will want to make it all work out. if you want to try dating other people, dont waste your time for a relationship that you dont even really care about anymore.
just tell your girlfriend you need some space and thinking time and no matter what she says take that time for yourself... you also need to make sure that you and the other person take it slow b/c you dont want it to be a rebound thing!
If you don't really WANT to save the relationship, then it probably isn't going to work out. Break up now before it gets worse. The longer you wait, the more difficult it becomes.
Call her and have phone sex. It's fun! ;-)
You need to have this conversation with your girlfriend.
First loves are the best and worst loves one could have in the beginning of any relationship. Sounds as if you both need some space, but don't know for sure how to go about it. Communicate it the best. Sit and talk, sensibly, no yelling or accusations. Get to the heart of what is wrong. And most of all listen to each other. Get cheating out of your mind all together. If your relationship is worth saving, then don't rock the boat. If you can't work it out, take a break see where it goes. Time is going to tell one way or the other.
that sounds like you just described my relationship. i have a gf for 3 years and 8 months and the first two years were hell as well me and her would piss off each other so much that we just broke out fist figjhts. when we hit 3 years together we stopped we have tiny arguments when we dont agree with something but nothing so violent. now i barely see her and im starting to like this new girl i started working with but i have my girlfriend too and i dont want to cheat one her. i guess i just feel lonely. i only see my girl once a week and im really into the other girl. only problem is she got hooked up with a guy just yesterday after being so flirtacious with me. just try to work it out more with her. and never use the word its over unless there is not one pint of love left in your hearts. but if you both don't feel like it will work out in the end then call it quits and try with the other girl. but which ever ur decision is i hope it all turns out great in the end =) good luck.