Relationship problem..advice please! A GUYS OPINION WOULD BE GREAT!!?

ok please dont criticize me im not sure how to handle this. Im 6 months pregnant and i recently left the father. Since december he has been spending a majority of his time with a woman older than him telling me nothing sexual is going on he is just playing her for her money. I knew right there he wasnt the man i met. He still sees the same woman but since its started she thinks they are getting married, its an endless circle but she knows about me and who i am but obviously doesnt care. since i left he calls continuously everyday saying how he f****d up and is begging me to forgive him. I dont believe its innocent at all. He is to involved with he family and even her jobs parties. She doesnt know im having his baby but shes making my life so dramatic. Ive left and changed my number and all that but i cant forgive him and he cant understand why. HE IS A FABULOUS LIAR! He thinks i believe it all...idk im in need of some good mature advice! what the hell do i do to get out or change something? ultimatums dont work with him.Relationship problem..advice please! A GUYS OPINION WOULD BE GREAT!!?
Since the ';father'; sounds like a d-bag, i'd hit him for some serious child support once you prove that the child is his especially since he's ';playing'; with this other lady just for her money.





you seem to be off to a good start by changing your phone number.





please don't get back together with the father for the sake of the child. like i said he sounds like scum scamming people for their hard earned money. Karma will soon catch up to this guy.Relationship problem..advice please! A GUYS OPINION WOULD BE GREAT!!?
Obviously, this man is chronic liar, don't believe what he says....


If you want to truly end this relationship, you must walk away for good.


This is NOT a good role model for a child.


Gather as much support as you can around you, family %26amp; friends, and just think of your child and yourself, concentrate on that:) That's the best thing you can do for now.
He's not a fabulous liar...he's just an idiot; and so are you if you stay with him. Either he's the best lay ever, of your a bit clingy...in the sense that you're afraid to be alone. Move on, you'll find someone much better who loves you and treats you (and others) they way you should and deserve to be treated.
Well honestly I really think if possible, you should pack up and move. You have a baby coming and you don't need the stress he is causing you. You nned to get as far from him as you can and as soon as possible.
Hi,





yikes that does seem difficult. It might be necessary to consider getting some legal advice. It sounds like you two are heading for a split up and when you do eventually have your child, you will need to arrange custody and support.





However as one final attempt before leaving him, I'd tell him outright that he shouldn't be trying to get money from an older woman (assuming this is true) and that he has to choose between you and his child or this older women and her money.





And that is it, if you get anything other than a clear proclamation that he will commit to you and the baby, you should drop him.





I've dealt with duplicitous people before and you can't go on being subordinate to his flimsy whims. Go ahead, have your child and with luck you will eventually find the right guy for you. :)