Relationship/clothing advice needed!?

i have been in a great relationship for three years now (paying for a ring as i type!) but i have alot of hang ups about our sex life. First, i have a fetish for stockings, i know its weird, im sorry! but for the life of me i cant get her to ';dress up'; for me in the bedroom, to me its a very simple thing, just put em on, give me 3 or 4 minutes and im cool you know? ( ok maybe not that long lol) she claims to hate them, and will never wear them for me, however when i helped her move into her new place i found a box that had a garter belt and several pairs of thigh highs and stockings..so she has worn em right? why nto for me!!! we do everything together and are in true love, but i cant it out of my head that she has done it in the past for some other guy, and refuses to do it for me, the one who feels like hes earned enough brownie points for something so common..


So how can i approach to do it?


do i have 2 get over it?


how can i let it go if she still refuses?


PLEASE HELP!Relationship/clothing advice needed!?
If she has done this for someone else - why is she denying someone ';she loves';? Discuss this with her. If you are really hung up in this fetish of the stockings - I would seriously be thinking of not being married to this girl. If you do not find satisfaction in marriage - you will probably be looking elsewhere for it and ';cheating'; while married is not a good thing for a healthy relationship.Relationship/clothing advice needed!?
Ask her straight out...has she done this before, whats the problem now, etc.
well, how do you know that she has actually done that for another guy? she might just have those to wear for her because she feels sexy in them. be open about it and talk to her. you're not gonna change her. no one likes to feel like they have to make a change for another person. be honest. communication is key. but don't feel discouraged over it. if you've been together for 3 years, she's obviously doing something right for you. :)