Saturday, July 31, 2010

I am in desperate need of relationship advice?!?!?!!!!!?

Kay so we started going out like 3 days ago and we didnt know eacthother well at all like we never ever talked.and the first day and the second day we like didnt talk at all ,and now today we just started to talk like A BIT ??? all we do is say hi and hug , like a g/f and b/f do way more than that . sometimes he says hi to me first and sometimes i say hi to him first. Its better from when we started, but i dont think this is working out that well. Ireallyy need some advice like i really donno what to do! and no answers like ';oh just start a conversation'; like i already no that but this is really complicated. Help ?!?!?!?!!!!!I am in desperate need of relationship advice?!?!?!!!!!?
i think if you two feel so awkward with each other, then its one of those 'not meant to be' occassions. See, if you were meant to be b/f and g/f then you two would be comfortable with each others company...my serious advice is dump him, explain you guys arent compatible...and if he fights to keep you, then you never knowI am in desperate need of relationship advice?!?!?!!!!!?
well go up to him and start talking ask him if he wants to hang out to night or when ever and then go form there. well ask him wut he is doing to night or that night/day. but things should start sparking when you start talking to him.





Good Luck!!
i'd give it until you have been going out a week and if things don't get any better end it. most relationships can be awkward at first i think you just need to get comfortable with each other :)
Just give it some time. Just be patient. He will break out of his shell. Just talk to him and make him feel more comfortable around you.
You guys don't know each other but are gf and bf so it's going to start slow.





I'd say it's progressing normally.
Have more confidence in yourself. Work on your self-esteem.
why are you going out with him if you dont know him.





how about u go on a date and get to know him
you're going out but you've never really talked ??? how does that even happen?
honestly, relationships depend on conversations. If you and your boyfriend are unable to converse with one another, dating is a total waste of time and an excuse to keep the unwanted from asking you out.


Question sweetie: Why are you even dating? HOW are you two dating if yahl never even talk?


And the thing is, it shouldnt be forced. If you have to sit there and brainstorm constantly, trying to figure out what to say, there should be no relationship.


Personally, RELAX.


Friendship has to form before a relationship can.


A comfort around him needs to be developed. But if you two seriously think that yahl like one another, try spending time together. LOTS AND LOTS OF TIME TOGETHER. If sparks ignite, your problem is solved. If not, find someone you don't have to try so hard to be yourself with. I guess it all depends on how much you like this guy.


But good luck sweetheart.


More than likely, its not worth it.

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