Desperately in need of some relationship advice. I'm in a complete state.?

I didn't have a father and have always thought the route of my problem was this, i had a man that loved me, would do anything for me, yet I abused that and split up with him 3 times in order to see this other man. Now I am in an awful mess, I have a child with my ex, the guy that loved me, and for the last three years he has continued to have sex with me, but play me off against another woman in his life. She got pregnant by him and had a termination, but he still continues to see her and not commit and won't be a family with me and our child because I hurt him so much. Why did I risk everything for meaningless sex? My ex used to control me thats why I left, but we were very very young. I can see how I hurt him, but this has been going on now for 3 years with this other woman, she knows he still see's me. I don't want to be in this sick triangle, but i am never strong enough to say no to him. I grab anytime that he is around me and my daughter with both hands. Please someone help meDesperately in need of some relationship advice. I'm in a complete state.?
ohh dear... sounds like someone wants to have their cake and eat it!!


How much are you really worth? what price do you put on your own self worth? not a lot at the moment by the sound of it.


He knows your gunna be there for him which is why he keeps coming back.


Take a look around you, is there anyone interested in you? bet there is but you dont wanna commit yourself to anyone else in case your ex want you again,,, big mistake! Hes obvioulsy showing no respect for you, your daughter or this partner hes had so please please move on and get someone that deserves you. Ill put money on it that hes got or had someone else too as well as his partner and you.


Your daughter deserves to have time with him but just with him, keep it seperate, arrange him to have her while you go out and find yourself someone, you will be surprised, when you meet someone that you can be happy with someone else.. just takes time to break free from someone.. good luck hope this helps..i bet he will hate it but it needs to be done and you need to be strong for you and your daughter.Desperately in need of some relationship advice. I'm in a complete state.?
You need to get up enough courage to walk away, He knows what he is doing and as long as you and her let him he will not stop and think of your child leave him for good.