He doesn't want a serious relationship???? Advice!!?

I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and he just told me he doesn't want a serious relationship, that he's not ready and he wants to be able to give me his all. He still wants to be with me and wants me in his life and to continue what we're doing. He also still wants to be exclusive. What does this mean. I'm stuck, because I love him but I think I know what I want and deserve. Plus, we booked a vacation 6 months from now that's non refundable and he said we can still go. I'd like to hear all of your thoughts. Thanks.He doesn't want a serious relationship???? Advice!!?
It sounds like while he does still care about you, he isn't interested in the commitment anymore.





It sounds like he is trying to let you down gently and ease out of the relationship so that he doesn't hurt you.





Find someone else to go on the vacation with. Start moving on now. If he wanted to be with you he would. You can't force boys into anything or else it just pushes them farther away.





Best of Luck!He doesn't want a serious relationship???? Advice!!?
He wants YOU to be exclusive, and not necessarily himself to be.


When he says he does not want a serious relationship, he means what he says..... He don't want to live together, he does not want to get married, but if you are willing to be his ';friend with benefits';, he will continue seeing you and doing what you do together on his time.





If you want more than this.... move on.
Ok well i think is he doesn't want a serious relationship then he's not the one for you. Because i believe if later on in the future you will want to get married one day and he's not going to be ready. If he wants to be 'exclusive ' he means he still wants to be making out or partying with girls or friends. I don't know you but but you need someone that deserves you and someone who loves you. Hope i helped!


peace! :)
What ??? I don't get it. Are you talking about getting married etc. to him or something that is scaring him ?? if so, stop doing it. If you are innocent of this, and he just has come up with this now, but still wants to be exclusive, I would think something else is going on with him and be wary. Check out his actions when he isn't with you. And as far as the vacation, well, if it doesn't work out then get a girlfriend to go with you instead - better than being miserable after spending all that money. Good luck.
honestly it sounds like he's confused because he says one thing yet he acts like if he wants a serious relationship. what i recommend is for you to mention this to him and let him know how you feel and if he is willing to loose you than it wasn't worth it in the 1st place.
aww its ok well even though thats a long relationship it doesn tmean the world is crashing. this probably means he just wants to stay away frim kissing and making out. stick to hugs and holding hands. also the vactaion is in 6 months? Well thinsg may change by then. So dont worry and good luck.
He doesn't want a serious relationship (with you)
start out as good friends and it will soon lead to something just dont go far cause it wiill scare hem away
You have nothing coming. Sorry. Time to call it a wrap. And be out.
calm down just give him time......there is no rush some people aren't ready yet......give him time.
you could just use him as a f*** buddy
break up, unless u don wanna marry him