Relationship problem advice?

This girl and I have been talking for about a month. She has an ex bf she hangs out with once a month and makes out with. She had a ';boy toy'; that she ended it with in that month. she was upset about some medical issues theboy toy had. then theres me i asked her if we were working toward someting and she said she could see a possiblity. But then she said she thought about it and doesnt see anything happening right now. But she said dont expect anything. So i asked if that meant something in the future?, never?, or you dont know. She said for the time being i dont want one. possibly ever. ima girl idk what i want she says. Then i said i thought we would just keep talken and trying to get to know each other and she saiid ookay. and so then she called me a friend with benefits. do you think it will evolve into anything? we get along great. she told me that if she was to have a boyfriend ever it would have to be someone like me. shes never had a real bf. I am 19 shes 18 were in college.Relationship problem advice?
This girl does seem to not really like the commitment of having a boy friend. She'd rather ';play around'; Understand? She has a boy toy, she makes out with ex's? You said so yourself that you're her ';Friend with benifits'; That really doesn't make sense on her part... Except for the fact that she prolly doesn't wanna commit like that. From her stand point, its prolly just more in it for her to have many guys on the sides, but not a #1. Do you understand? I mean, This may evolve into something, but seeing the way she goes on, i highly doubt it. Maybe in a couple of years, but why wait that long?Relationship problem advice?
Now there is one who likes to keep her options open, and who can blame her ? 18 and 19 is too young to be worried about ever-aftering. Just enjoy being with her (bet she is a blast to hang with) and don't get possessive or needy. I think the minute you do with this lady, she'll be gone so fast you could shoot pool on her shirt tail. Good luck.
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you just said it she does'nt know what she wants, but i think i would be more concerned with those medical issues of the boy toy. my advice move on to someone who knows what they want
no sweety... she ain't really worth all that..


but if u feel that she's special for u.. give it 1 month.. if u see her ways r changing n she likes u or showing signs stick 2 it.


if there is no change n her attitude is the same


MOVE ON
She's not interested... she's having fun and you're her emotional rebound guy! You guys SHOULD be having fun in college!
She's a hoe. Don't be one of her boy toys cause trust me, she has enough. Tell the perv to **** off.