Alright... So here is the situation. It's driving me kinda crazy.
A girl moved to where I live from Ohio... I met her through a mutual friend and man we hit it off... One of those; finish sentences for one another, start singing the same song. It was a connection like none other...
The problem was... Me. I have been or had been single for 5 full years with NO real commitment between. She was extremely loving and kind but I was standoffish and kind of stupid... One day we had a REALLY bad fight. She broke down... and I told her I'd change. I finally felt like she REALLY DID love me and this WAS REAL. So I started returning her kindness... She said she lost our connection. She tried too hard to get me before and now she can't... So we worked together... and finally; another fight happened due to PURE MISCOMMUNICATION via text message. I had no idea she was mad... and said something in jest which really offended her... She freaked and decided she wanted to go home.
Now; she claims her decision is only 2-5% US and is MOSTLY HER. Saying she moved too fast. All that...
But; She loves me. Now were in a situation... and this is where I need advice...
Shes moving on the 16th to go home. Right now. Were broken up but she is claiming she doesn't want to see me date anyone else... She isn't going to either... She needs to just take time to herself... So; I feel like by telling people were still together is a lie... but yet. I want that future.
I'm in love with this girl... and it took me almost losing her fully to realize it. Now; when together she'll still hold my hand but she won't really kiss me as much... Help me here....
Is space all she needs or is she leaving... and not coming back?
I just don't know how to deal with this and nobody has been able to offer advice...Can someone please offer me some relationship advice?
look... this girl is telling the truth. as long as she loves you. dont LIE about it unless you REALLY want to push her away, which i dont think you do. just relax. she'll come to her senses sooner or laterCan someone please offer me some relationship advice?
i think its space but sounds like you messed up big time
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