I could really use some relationship advice...?

so my boyfriend of 4 years and i broke up. he said he needed time away from me and yes i know what that means. but we go to the same bars, and i NEVER see him with other girls. he is always with guy friends. anyways. i went to his house yesterday to tell him i might be moving to texas in august. he was CRUSHED and started crying. he then said that he tells all his friends that there is a good chance me and him would be together, he just isnt ready now because he is having so much fun. (we are both 26) he likes answering to himself only. he told me i didnt have to move, and that he loved me. he hugged me and cried and wouldnt let go. what in the world is going on! i love him so much, but i cant sit and wait for him to be ready. what should i do? see if anything changes in the next 2 months...and then decide? or what?I could really use some relationship advice...?
He obviously loves you a lot.. and it hurts him if you go away... only you can know if you love him enough to stay or if you really have to move to Texas... often in life love doesn't take the direct road.. it often takes the roundabout but it gets there in the end... I mean if you love him then I would wait.. but if you don't think you really love him you must go... Love often has to prove itself under difficult situations... there are ups and downs in every relationship and it proves if a love is strong enough if it endures the tough times... then it will be a love that lasts...if love only endures the sunny days and as soon as rain sets in.. then it is not a deep love.. only you can decide but something similar happens in every relationship and then love has to prove if it can stand the test or not... and nobody can blame you for whatever decision you make but you got to be honest to yourself... and you also got to be honest to him.. but first and foremost to yourself.. do you love him.. just ask yourself that.. and follow that feeling and make your decision accordingly... and is there something important waiting in Texas.. if there is and you have made important plans and really really believe that is where you belong you got to go but if you want to give this love another chance then you need to stay and you need to get together with him and put the alternatives before him.... and really discuss this matter like two people who share their thoughts, hopes, fears and dreams and who communicate about everything that impacts their future... and he has to be responsible and mature enough to be ready to let you know what he wants.. he can't hold out forever... he needs to know there are only two ways and he has to make a decision.. free from pressure but he owes you a decision and that soon ....xxI could really use some relationship advice...?
No, don't wait. That's just allowing him to ponder his own life at the expense of yours. Ask him to go out someimte to talk, like over coffee or something. Tell him you love him and you want to be with him but you can't waste your time with someone who doesn't ';know'; if they feel the same way.
Move. Just move girl. Don't ever wait around for what might be. Waste of time. Live your life today. I left a bf in the dust and moved and ended up meeting my husband 3 months later. If he was that into you he would step it up.
we can give you all the advise in the world but it sounds like you need to go with your heart which i know is very hard to do. crazy as it may seem i understand what your ex is saying,but he also has to make up his mind on which is more important. being with the one he loves or being with his buddies all the time. its not fare to you to have to wait on him until hes done having fun,even if its all innocent. If i was you id ask him 1 last time and let him know how you feel and if he cant answer that he wants to be with you then id move on he made his choice and you need to make a life for yourself. im sorry to here whats going on and i hope all works out. good luck!